Saturday, December 01, 2007

Reflection

took the ride at 10:58 PM | 0 comments
Today went playing paint with dale, yao yong , yi fan and xiu (e onli gal). It was damn fun.. but painful at the same time. Each group will play 2 rounds and each round consists of 2 halfs.. if we onli win 1 half den we will onli get 1 point. If we win 1 full round, that would be 3 points. Team with highest point will win. Unfortunately we came in with a tie with another group at 4 points. The 1st round was abit chaotic cos some of my friend didn't noe wat to do. But the 2nd round was darn gd. We had v gd team work and manage to win that full round. Had some slight injuries but really enjoyed myself.

Reflection isn't abt the above but rather abt ppl. From the last entry.. i was tokin abt my friend and her best friend relationship sour. The weirdest thin isn't abt the cool war.. but rather wat has been done. When i asked her abt wats done.. she just kept quiet and ans with nodes and shakes.

Friendship. What is it? Companion? Sense of belonging? Sense of identity? If u call someone ur friend. What does it mean? To me.. it doesn't matter wat he done b4 or wat his background is. Friendship cannot be replaced. BUT! True friendship doesn't built on words but trust. Trust built thru many events.. trust often fail not becos there isn't enuff understanding but becos none of the side is willing to hold on to it. We can onli truely understand other people thru many events. When 2 person fall out, no one willin to make ammendments and both will start to feel disappointed with each other. "So this is the real him/her" thats the 1st tot comes in mind. "Fine. i can do without him/her" the 2nd step and eventually everythin falls.

Everyones often say they noe what they hve to treasure.. but most of us are wrong. We nv noe who or wat to treasure until we loses it. Onli thru real experience then our foolishness will be wash off. To you... wat is your friend(name) to u? thats the 1st qn that every single one of us shld ask. Many of us takes thin for granted and thats human nature. If we ever lose somethin impt.. we ourselves are the onli one to blame. Look around.. ask urself wats this person to you.. wat hve u done for him/her... wat has he/she done for you... and u may realise that you neglected alot of thins. Dun live with regrets.. regrets will always be nothin more den painful memories and sadness.

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