1st of march.. a start of a new month and the beginnin of new happenings.. 1 month since the start of this new blog. Its a month with many thins happenin to me, my frens and the society. I hve experienced alot in this month. Frm my military life down to hm. Ups and downs. Anger and happiness. Nv tot that so many thins could happen within such short period of time. Drastic changes within camp is makin life more tirin yet its the same old cycle goin rd and rd. At times, there are people in camps that over does thins and really make one unbearable. Sometimes, works are not appreciated. For instance, we help to finish a small closet and my fren gt "wack" real hard cos its in the way that our boss wanted. BUT there is a fact that he didn't actually say how he wanted it. Nothin much could b done.. my fren could onli listen in slience. The followin day.. our boss decided that the other small closet would b done the same way. Ya.. thats life. There are just people that way. Many of which doesn't provide a solution to the problem when the problem itself is in a chaos.. all they do is to "kan" (scold) and shout here and there. Not all could take stress, that i can understand but is that goin to solve the problem? Many of us forget whats more important durin times like this. We all wan to "run away" and therefore starts to blame ard. Its this kind of environment that we all were brought up culturing this kind of habit when eva problem itself rises. We also tend to look back and regret. Thats y i often tell myself this "i hve decided on it.. i'll nv look back on it and regret". Whats done cannot b undone.. "if" is word of illusion. It just confuses us more. Be brave and step on.. and problems themselves r not problems.. they are merely just challenges in life.
Recently.. theres been and issue of a gal's home made sex video with her bf been exposed to the public. Many people started searchin for the video and made comments like.. how could she do this? This is not right etc. I must admit i also did search for the video itself and i watched it. But my main concern wasn't whether this home made video is unethical. My worry was the ability of this gal to handle this in sch and in public. The onli few thins unethical r the facts that there r people who build enjoyment over other people's privacy. Its bad enuff to tell others abt it and its WORSE to actually annouced it to the whole world! Theres nothin wrong with e video. Whats wrong is people actually takin advantage of this. There are actually people sellin merchandise of the gal. Frm t-shirts to mugs... u can get them online! Many people goes ard jokin abt this.. like "next time she might b a famous porn star" etc. it may b a joke.. but its not goin to b nice for the gal.
Somethin crossed my mind when this issue was brought up in the news. Y isit always the gal in trouble? Y isit always the gal at fault? Y when this kinda of thins happen.. its the gal thats been targeted? We all noe the ans... no matter how females stand up now adays.. its a fact that male dominates. In this society.. sexistism( dunno how to spell) still v much exist. U would hardly c gals in parliments.. holdin high ranks in military... been directors of a well known companies. If a gal actually does work to that level.. many would believe that its the work of beauty, sweet tokin and worse.. sex. Many of the times, women's efforts are not appreciated. Of cos.. changes are seen. More and more women are on same level to decide as man does. But to totally believe that man and woman would stand on the same grd side by side.. i would confidently say this would nv happen. Its not that i look down on woman but i believe e course of nature. Man exist to control and protect. Female exist to support and provide warm. Its all in the course of nature. If one day we would really alter the course i can nv imagine what will happen.
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